Scribbling...

I just wanna scribble something over here,
it's a random thought.
Forgive me if you have no clue of what I'm writing.

There's an urge for me to observe people nowadays.
And by that, there are several ways to satisfy my desires...
Had been immersing muaself in the J culture these days.
Have to admit, J guys can be very beautiful，
Beautiful in the sense that the look artificial...
And why most of the J gals are so soft and gentle??
Its a kind of stereotype isn't it?
Guys be strong and muscular,
Gals be kind and gentle....
What's with this thinking?????
Gals can too be strong, cute and muscular, right?
And Guys can too be soft-spoken and timid right??
Though I admit that its easier to accept manly gals than girly boys,
it's still something the media created for the society.
I mean, think back, where did we first learn that gals have to wear skirts and boys have to wear pants??
Parents? Books? Television? Billboards????
They all are a part of media right???
Ok, I'm being very judgmental now.
Coming back, J drama are really nice.
At least they are clean enough not to put scenes which spoils the minds of many..
Eg: X-rated....
And they are also very creative in the sense that all the settings and the behaviour of the characters are too cute to be true!!! =)
Haha.. And some of their OST are not bad too. ^^
Thanks sis for immersing into the J world with me!!

Back to the observing people topic,
all of you should try it once of twice,
juz observing the people around you,
how they move, how they sit, how they talk...
They are actually quite interesting when you start to notice some of their routines.. ^^
Try it, its no harm!
Except if your two BIG EYES follow the target like a magnet la...
It can be scary and unpleasing for others..
Just do it secretly... You'll find something interesting doing it..
Oh ya, one last thing..
DUN MAKE IT A HABIT!
I have friends who are not afraid to show that they are observing people!!!
They heads move according to the target's movement!!
Like an owl, scouting for a prey...
As if they will attack the person anytime... Scary...
So, if you are to observe people, observe their minds 1st,
Try to understand how they feel being noticed...
Try thinking how will you react if someone is observing you???

Jean came and left this weekend.
Have fun camming with her.
May she visit again!

And just a piece of advice.
To each and everyone of you who are struggling to make decisions
and how to interact with others...
I can't tell you what to do or where to go,
please remember,

JUST BE YOURSELF!

Falsifying yourself will only make you suffocate yourself.
Remember who you are, what you wanna be,
stand strong in what you truly believe in..
Show your true colours...
And I know you will do fine.
As for those who feel that making up lies can help solve the problems,
Please note that 1 lie will be followed by tons of lies,
it's a never ending routine...

That's all for the random thoughts!
Heading to bed!

sweet~

True Colours-Cyndi Lauper